Mama Bear · Praying the Commands of Jesus

Why Our Kids Must Make Jesus Their First Follow

We live in an age where everyone and anyone is calling for our kids to follow them.  There is a first follow that will guide all of their other follows, and that follow is Jesus.    By following Him first, He becomes the measuring stick by which they measure all of their other follows.

Jesus’ call to follow Him is clear…

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In this verse Jesus is speaking to Peter and Andrew, two brothers who were doing their daily fishing. As we read on scripture tells us that at once, they left their nets and followed Him, they don’t hesitate for a moment.

Jesus’ call is still clear for our kids today:

Come Follow Me



To come is to take your place, move into position or move into view.  Our children must be positioned so that Jesus is in their view, the first place where we can get them into position is in our home.

They must see that before we make daily decisions, 

We Place Jesus in Our View 

They must see that before we eat a meal, that we pause with thanks,

We Place Jesus in Our View

They must see that when the waves of life come,

threatening to take us under,  

We Place Jesus in Our View 


…and follow Me…

To follow is to to conform to, comply with, or act in accordance with; to obey.  When our children decide to follow Jesus they are making a decision to live according to His commands, to live life the Jesus Way. 

We can make many decisions for our kids, but this decision is theirs alone.  That is why we must pray, that they will not hesitate and come to their own decision to Follow Jesus.

Some Mama Bears will not have to pray this prayer long, other Mama Bears may be praying this prayer for years.  For the Mama Bears who are still praying, I stand with you, I agree with you in prayer that your child will hesitate no longer, and make the choice to Follow Jesus!

The end result of this prayer no matter how long we pray, or how many years pass, is a beautiful transformation…

…I will transform you…

A transformation will begin within them and the living and powerful Spirit of God will come alive inside them. The life long work of Jesus in their lives will begin changing their nature and character, to become more and more like Jesus.

…into men and women who will catch people for God… 

People will see the character and nature of Jesus in them and will be attracted to them, and causing friendships to form.  Then they will cast their nets and they will gather those people and lead them to the Great Fisherman,  Jesus.

I want this life for our kids 

I want Jesus in their view all day

I want them on His heels, following Him so closely,

That He can hear them coming up behind Him 

Let Pray this passionalty for our children, Mama Bears!

A Mama Bear Prayer

Father I  pray that ________ will not hesitate to come to Jesus, that Jesus will be in her/his view all day long.

I rejoice that as _______ follows Jesus, Jesus is doing a transforming work within him/her.

Making _______ a fisher of people, who are need of a Savior, gathering them in, and bringing them to Jesus.  – In Jesus Name Amen

A Prayer for You Mama Bear

Father I pray over my fellow Mama Bears today, that you will help them to keep Jesus in their view, from their rising up until their laying down.  May they resist the temptation to take their eyes off of Him when the waves threaten to crash over them.  May their homes become a place anchored in You, and may their nets reach far gathering in those who need Jesus.  In Jesus Name Amen

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Why We Must Pray for Repentant Hearts

When your child was born, I’m sure one of your thoughts was that he or she looked so pure, so innocent and they do!  There is nothing like a newborn, the softness, the smell the newness.   In that moment you couldn’t imagine that this precious little one would ever sin.

Truth be told,  it won’t take long until their selfish and sinful nature begins to reveal itself.  It’s just a fact, our human nature is bent toward sin, we are selfish lovers of ourselves and we all are in a lifetime battle against it.

Before you know it, that innocent babe is walking and talking, and soon you are hearing the words, “Mine” and “No”.   A few years later you hear the first lie come out of that little person’s mouth, it leaves you shocked and breaks a little piece of your heart.

You will not want to see your child’s sin, you’ll want to look away, ignore it and refuse to  believe it.  You must be brave, Mama Bear, and see your child’s sin for what it is, sin.  Make it your business to face it, name it and never give up praying about it until you see change.

One of the first commands we hear from Jesus as He stepped out in ministry is “Repent”.  This tells us that repentance is an important step, a step that we and our children must  take.

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Turning away from sin…

To repent is to feel sorry, to have regret, so much so that you are willing to make a change, and turn away from it.

Saying you are sorry is not popular these days.  We see people making excuses and getting by with sinful behavior everywhere we turn.

If we do hear the words ‘I’m sorry” it’s often just an attempt to escape the consequences.

Jesus is calling us to be real here.  To be conscious of our of sin and when we sin, we have a sincere desire to not repeat it again.

Consequence is a good teacher
At our house it’s called, “feeling the pain.”

Mama Bear, you will be very tempted to step in and remove the consequence of sin for your children.  Resist it, feeling the consequences, or should I say feeling the pain leads to a lesson,  and those lessons lead truly repentant hearts, away from future sin.

Come back to God…

Our children must see us walking repentance out in our own lives.  Repentance leads us back to God every time, back to the Cross where forgiveness is possible.

As we teach and train our children in the way they should go, part of our job is helping them face their sin, name their sin and turn away from it.  Then we can take them by the hand and walk with them to the Cross, where they can feel the light of forgiveness rising.

For Heaven’s kingdom realm is now accessible.  Matthew 4:17

If you are like me your thinking, “What does this even mean?  Heaven’s Kingdom realm is now accessible?”

Jesus is saying, I’m going to make the way for forgiveness of sin.  Right now there is no way, but when I finish My Mission, you will have a way from the darkness of sin to the light of forgiveness.  You will have access through Me to my Father and to all of Heaven.  The road that leads you there is called the Road of Repentance.

I want my children on this road with me, don’t you?

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A Prayer for Your Child:  

Lord, help _______ to acknowledge, repent and turn away from his/her sin and draw close to You.  I thank you that through Jesus You have made the way for _________ to always come back to You, to have access to You, to step out of the darkness and into Your brilliant light. In Jesus Name, Amen

A Prayer for You, Mama Bear 

Lord, I lift my Mama Bear friend up in prayer today.  I ask that she become a woman who faces her sin head on and is quick to turn away from it.

Lord, You are so gracious that You have already made the way for her to continually turn around and come back to You, lead her from the darkness of sin to the light of a repentant life that serves as a guide for her children.  In Jesus Name – Amen

If you’re wondering about all of the Mama Bear talk you can find out more about that here.  Mama Bear

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Pray With Purpose

A purpose is the reason, the aim or the goal.

We have to ask ourselves, what is our aim when we pray for our children, what are we hoping to achieve?

More importantly what is God wanting to achieve through our prayers?


I believe that the Lord’s purpose is reflected in this scripture, He is always at work transfiguring us into His likeness –

We can all draw close to him with the veil removed from our faces. And with no veil we all become like mirrors who brightly reflect the glory of the Lord Jesus. We are being transfigured into his very image as we move from one brighter level of glory to another. And this glorious transfiguration comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit. 

1 Corinthians 3:18 – The Passion Translation

He wants to draw us close.  So close that we begin to reflect Him in all we say and do, from glory to glory.

He wants our children to know Him face to face, to know Him as well as they know their own reflection, He wants to take them from from glory to glory.

Less of Us – More of Him
From Glory to Glory

If we happen to forget God’s purpose, no worries, He’ll remind us. 

I meet with some ladies once a week and we pray for our community.  On my heart that day were Mama Bears and their Baby Bears who are born addicted.  In the area I live it is on the rise and my heart breaks, not only for the babies but the mamas too.

When we finished praying one of the women said something brave, “We must be ready, when the opportunity arises, to put feet to our prayers today.”  

It was only hours when my opportunity arose, and I’ll be shamefully honest, I hesitated.

It was inconvenient, I was busy and it didn’t fit in to my plan for the evening.  Then the Lord stopped me dead in my tracks.  “Wasn’t this the very women and child you were praying for today?”  

It was the kick in the pants that I needed and it spurred me into action. I rearranged my plans, and went to encourage those who God had called me to that night, the very ones I had been praying for that morning.  I had almost missed it, I had almost missed my purpose.

We must be Mama Bears, who are willing put feet to our prayers.  Our children need to see us grab ahold of our purpose, this will give them courage to grab ahold of theirs.

When we pray for our Baby Bears, we must pray with God’s Purpose in mind, that they be transfigured into His likeness.  Jesus gives us a great starting point, His Commands to us and to our children.    When they begin to walk in obedience to the Commands of Jesus, this is the path to an abundant life!  I desperately want that, do you?

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When we hold our  Bible we hold the Commands of Jesus  in our hands, but there is a difference between holding them and keeping them.  To keep something is to maintain it with care and labor, to lay something up, to treasure it.

Love and obedience walk  hand in hand.  When we purpose to keep Jesus’ commands this demonstrates our love for Him and a chain reaction begins.

  • Our obedience reveals our love for Jesus
  • Our love for Jesus opens the door to God the Father, and He lavishes His love upon us.
  • There is more… Jesus’ love is also released upon us, with a promises to reveal Himself to us.

To reveal is to make known, to lay open.  Jesus Himself is made known to us as we love Him and keep His commands, everything about Him is layed open before us.

We then find ourselves knowing Him more and more, loving Him more and more.   Our lives are  being molded by love and obedience.  From glory to glory.

Don’t we want all of this love shaping our children’s lives?  

Don’t we want them living, breathing and moving in the love of Jesus?  

How better, than to pray the Commands of Jesus over their lives!

As you read through the Commands of Jesus, imagine how they will shape the life of your son or daughter.

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This list is going to take us on a prayer journey.  Each week we will pray a command from Jesus over our children, with Passion, with Power and with Purpose.

Let’s Start with Jesus’ Call – To Keep His Commands   

A Prayer for Your Child: 

Lord, I thank you that _______ has access to the commands of Jesus, may he/she keep them with care,  showing his/her love for Jesus.  As _______ loves you though his/her obedience I rejoice in knowing that _________ is loved by You and Jesus will come and reveal Himself to her/him.  -Amen

A Prayer for you Mama Bear: 

Father, I lift up my Mama Bear friend to you, may she be a woman who digs deep into the Commands of Jesus.   Make her the gatekeeper of her home as she strives to maintain them in her life.  I thank you that her love for Jesus, will spur her on in obedience to Your Word.  Remind her that Your love for her is overflowing, and may Jesus be revealed to her more and more. – Amen

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Praying with Power

Scripture tells us that there is great power in the tongue.    What we say matters, it matters much.

And so the tongue is a small part of the body yet it carries great power! Just think of how a small flame can set a huge forest ablaze.  James 3:5 

So I must ask you, Mama Bear, what are you saying?  What words are you speaking over the life of your family?  What words do your children hear come out of your mouth?

Words of Life – Words of Encouragement – Words of Faith
– Or – 
Words of Fear – Words of Discouragement – Words of Doubt 

Even when we pray our feelings of fear, discouragement and doubt can filter in.  I will admit for many years I prayed with tears and frustration, and I was known to even add in some begging and pleading. It wasn’t until I learned to pray scripture that I felt true power in my prayers.


Power is the ability to act, to do accomplish something with strength. That’s exactly how I want to feel during and after my time in prayer, that I have accomplished something with strength! Lord knows, I’m weak on my own! The great thing with prayer is it’s not in my strength, but God’s.


Most days I do not feel godly or righteous, I feel like a plain old sinner.

But Jesus

You see, dear Mama Bears, it is Jesus who places us in the position of righteousness, right standing with God. Through Him we have been washed clean and can approach God’s throne with confidence.

Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. Hebrews 4:16

If that isn’t enough we have access to even more power –


When we pray God’s Word, our prayers become alive with power, His power.

I can trust that God’s words are alive and active, when mine are inadequate.

God’s words hit their mark, when mine fall short.

God’s words slice with the power of a sword, when mine are a butter knife.

God’s words penetrate the hearts, when our bounce off and fall to the floor.

A bonus is, when we pray God’s words for our children, His words pierce our hearts as well as theirs, and you know we love those two- for-one deals!

Let us be Mama Bears who leave our begging and pleading days behind us, and pray with power over the lives of our children as we teach them to do the same.

A Prayer for You Child:

Lord, I thank you for your word, that it is alive and active in _____________’s life.
As I pray your holy scriptures over him/her may they penetrate her/his soul and spirit. Your Word is the only thing that can judge the attitudes of _____________’s heart. Amen

A Prayer for You, Mama Bear:

Lord I lift up my dear Mama Friend, I ask that you remind her that Your power lives within her and she can approach Your throne with confidence. As she rids herself of offense and confesses her sin, your power comes and healing is released within her and those she is praying for. When she adds the piercing power of Your Word, her prayers are unstoppable! Amen


Living and Loving the Commands of Jesus

If you love me obey my commands.  Jesus said that.

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Faithful Friend


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The One I Claim To Love

I do love Him, at least I thought I did.  Until this list…I feel like it has left me pretty much undone.  If you really want it to sink in, read it out loud, then read it again.

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Now let me ask you, do you love Him?  

I’ll be honest, it has been so long since I have taken a long hard look into the commandments of Jesus that I had forgotten many of them.  It’s as if they existed in the background, when they should have been in the forefront.

Most often I’m looking into God’s Word seeking out what He has for me, not something  I can do for Him or those around me.  Most times I come to God’s Word taking, not giving.

This list has got me to wondering… 

When we live His commands, will we really start living?   

When we live His commands, will we really know the abundant life? 

When we live His commands, will we we really start seeing? 

When we live His commands, will we really start knowing? 

When we live His commands, will we really start loving?

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Praying with Passion

I have come to the place where I’m sick of my own voice and my own agenda. When I pray it becomes all about my plan, which seems to be the easier plan, but not the best plan.

I want to hear God’s voice when I open my mouth in prayer, I want to hear His Passion, His Power and His Purpose.

Let’s take a look into what it means to pray with God’s Passion.


Passion is a powerful and compelling emotion full of love and fondness. If I were to ask you to tell me a few things that you are passionate about, I would be able to hear the passion in your voice and see it on your face. The beautiful thing about passion is it compels us into action.

Listen to the greatest command from Jesus –

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Your passion may be your husband, your children, your career or business, an important cause and all are good, great even. If those passions supersede your passion for God, the truth is, your life will be out of order. When we make God our first passion, all of our other passions will spill over, in perfect order.

God knows that our passion compels us and He’s counting on it. You see if we love Him, with every passion in our heart, with all of our energy, with every thought and with all of our strength we’ll do anything He asks and go anywhere He takes us. We will follow Him to the end, and that’s what He longs for, a passionate lifetime relationship with us.

God wants this same relationship with our children, a passionate love filled relationship. Should we want anything less for them? I have to wonder if we have settled for less.

The culture in which we live will try to convince us that they should have other passions, sports, music, friends, school, hobbies, popularity, college, aspirations and that their passion for God can wait until later.

As I banged out those words I realized just how completely ridiculous they sound. Since when do we, followers of Jesus, care about popular culture? Why would we ever want our children’s passion for God to wait!

Mama Bears we must be the ones to encourage our children to passionately pursue God with all that is in them, and when they do, everything else falls into place. If we aren’t living out our passion for God in front of them, who is?

Maybe you are struggling with your passion for God, most of us have been there right along with you, times when we feel cold and distant.

There is power and passion within the Word of God, and as we begin to pray His words we will no longer hear our voice but His. Then that little ember within us will spark and our fire will burn again.

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A Prayer for your Child:

Lord, My prayer for ____________ is that he/she love You with every passion of her/his heart, with all of the energy of his/her being, with every thought within her/him and that ___________ will love you with all of his/her strength. I know this is Your great commandment. Amen

A Prayer for you, Mama Bear:

Oh Lord, you are passionate about your precious daughter and I ask that she love you with every passion of her heart, all of her energy, in every thought and with all of the strength within in her. Help her to live her passion for You, out loud before her children, that it will ignite a passion for You within them. Amen

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Book Review and Giveaway

LIVE, SAVE, SPEND, REPEAT – The Life You Want With the Money You Have

I love books! I also love to give great books away, and this is a GREAT book that digs into an important issue that affects us all, Money.

I have to say this book is packed with great ideas that will lead you to achieve your financial goals.  My favorite part – Monumental Milestones.  So often we don’t achieve our hopes and dreams because we don’t pray, plan or save for them.

Maybe your Monumental Milestone is to pay off your mortgage, attend a conference, start a business or take your family on a much needed vacation.  Kim offers great ideas on how to move forward making your Monumental Milestones a reality.


This book is not about extremes, it focuses on doable ways to create a budget, cut expenses, map out savings and giving plans, as well as a spending plan.   You will learn to use your money as a tool that works for you, rather than you being a slave to it.

One of the best books I have read on finances!

You can find Kim’s book here Live Save Spend Repeat

To enter in the giveaway, simply go to my Facebook or Twitter and share or retweet this review!

You’ll win your own copy of Live, Save, Spend, Repeat- The Life You Want With the Money You Have.  

A winner will be chosen on April 15th!


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Don’t Worry Mama Bear, Pray

I have heard it said many times that when you have your first child, it’s as if your heart came out of your chest and started walking around.  Sit around a table with a group of mothers and you will see that those words are true.

Mama Bears tend to worry and before we know it we have a list of them that has no end. Worry is a tricky thing, it starts small, and it can keep growing within us until we are almost smothered by it.

There are some boo-boos that we can kiss and make better, and there are some that are completely out of our control.

Maybe some of these sound familiar to you –

  • Are they eating well?
  • Sleeping well?
  • Are they happy?
  • Do they have friends?
  • Do I like their friends?
  • Do they like their teachers?
  • Do their teachers like them?
  • Are they studying enough?
  • Applying themselves enough?
  • Can I trust them?
  • Are they friendly and kind?
  • If they are moody, why are they moody?
  • Are they leaders or followers?
  • What are they wearing?
  • When is the last time they washed their hair? Brushed their hair?
  • Is their walk with the Lord strong enough?
  • Have I failed them in any way?
  • Do they lie to me?
  • Are they depressed?
  • Before we know it boyfriends, girlfriends, college, careers, spouses, marriage and gasp! grandchildren (a whole new generation to worry about) come into the picture and the list continues to grow.
Your list of worries will have no end, Mama Bear,
unless you put an end to it.
The only way is to take your worries and turn them into prayers

The power to do just that, lies within you. When you purpose to live your life according to this scripture, refusing to live in worry and fear, choosing to live in prayer and peace.

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding,will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

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Do not be anxious, worried, fearful

about anything, any one thing, to any degree

but in every, any, each situation

by prayer, communion with God and petition, ask

with thanksgiving, gratitude, appreciation

present, show, give your requests to God.

Then the peace, unity, calmness of God

which transcends, rises above all of your understanding

will guard and protect your heart, the center of who you are

as well as your mind and your thoughts, as they are hidden and protected in

Christ Jesus.

Prayer is our secret weapon against fear and anxiety, God beckons us to come to Him and pour out our hearts on behalf of our children.

Arise, cry out in the night,
    as the watches of the night begin;
pour out your heart like water
    in the presence of the Lord.
Lift up your hands to him
    for the lives of your children
 Lamentations 2:19

Don’t Worry Mama Bear, Pray. 

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Wondering where all his Mama Bear talk is coming from?  You can find that post here Mama Bear


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