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8 Prayers for Our Children

I am excited to welcome Stacey Pardoe, a dear writer friend, to the blog today.   Stacey  is the mama of two, a lover of the woods, and she does a little writing on the side.

She is also a wife and certified special education teacher.  She is passionate about walking closely with Christ and sharing his love with a broken world.

She writes weekly at You’ll  want to give this wise gal a follow!

Today she is going to be our guide as she walks us through 8 Prayers to Pray over Our Children. 

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How do we pray for our children when the wellspring of words runs dry?  How do we faithfully lift them before the Lord with confidence that our prayers match the desires of His heart?  When we’re not sure of how to pray, God’s Word enables us to stand in agreement with him and lift our children before his throne with confidence.

As a parent, I long to pray for my kids with devoted faithfulness.  I long to stand in agreement with my Savior and pray bold and powerful prayers for my kids.  But sometimes I get stuck.  Sometimes I can’t find the words.  Paul’s words to the Colossian church offer eight direct spiritual truths to pray over my children.  Offering these prayers for my kids daily has centered my focus and blessed my prayer life:

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  1. Pray they will be filled with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding (Colossians 1:9).

Jesus models this prayer when asked how we ought to pray: “Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven” (Matthew 6:10).  When we follow his example and pray that our children will know God’s will, we pray according to the example set by Christ himself.

  1. Pray they will walk in a manner worthy of the Lord (Colossians 1:10).

While it’s tempting for parents to spend excessive time praying for the behavior of our children, we honor God when we remember to pray that their behavior will honor him.  This goes for our spouses, friends, parents, and other loved ones as well.  When we ask God to intrude in their lives in such a way that they honor him in the way they live, we are praying godly prayers for godly behavior with godly motives.

  1. Pray they will please God in all respects (Colossians 1:10).

I have prayed this prayer often during seasons when my children were struggling with sin.  Whether it’s a child with a sudden inclination to fabricate information, a child who is struggling with an ungodly temptation, or a little one who is struggling with sadness, this is a powerful prayer.  It’s a prayer God honors, because it is the desire of his heart as well.

  1. Pray they will bear fruit (Colossians 1:10).

When the good deeds of our lives overflow with positive outcomes, we bear good fruit.  When I pray for my kids to bear fruit in their works, I pray for each of them differently.  I pray my daughter will interact with her schoolmates with compassion and kindness.  I pray my toddler will see the benefits of treating others with love and respect.

  1. Pray they will increase in their knowledge of God (Colossians 1:10).

Increasing in our knowledge of God ultimately leads to loving him more deeply.  I want nothing more for my children than to see them in a deeper love relationship with God.  As we come to know God more deeply, our love for him grows.  As our love for him grows, he transforms the way we see others and the way we live.  We begin to live out of his endless love for us and no longer crave the affirmation and acceptance of the world.

  1. Pray they will be strengthened with all power, according to God’s glorious might (Colossians 1:11).

We all need strength.  Whether it’s strength to stand up to the bully at school, strength to walk away from temptation, or strength to witness boldly for our faith, we rely on God’s strength.  When God’s strength flows through us, we are able to give without burning out, stand in fiery trials, and endure through the valleys of life.  This is what we want for our children, regardless of their season of life.

  1. Pray they will have steadfastness and patience (Colossians 1:11).

Many people have quoted the claim that we shouldn’t pray for patience, because praying for patience is like asking God to bring patience-testing moments into our days.  I disagree.  Whether or not we pray to bear the fruit of patience, life will test our patience.  We should pray to God to help us die to our self-centered impatience and bear his fruit of a patient heart.  We are called to pray this for our children as well.

  1. Pray they will be filled with joy and thanksgiving (Colossians 1:12).

My daughter loves it when I pray for her joy to abound.  We all want more joy.  Let’s bless our children by praying they will have greater joy and greater thanksgiving, which go hand-in-hand.  Joy is a beautiful fruit of a life deeply rooted in God’s love.   When we learn to see all things as representations of God’s goodness, we move deeper into joy.

I cling to the confidence that God’s Word never returns empty, and I see the fruit of my prayers often in the midst of our everyday life.  May you be encouraged to dig into God’s Word and pray these powerful prayers over your children as well.

This post was originally published at Desiring God.



You can find Stacey at

10 thoughts on “8 Prayers for Our Children

  1. I love praying Paul’s words over my kids, and there have been times when I have not trusted my own heart to find the right words to pray, and so Scripture has come to the rescue! Thanks, Stacey for reminding us that the sweeping promises of God’s Word are also for our little ones (who are becoming bigger at an alarming rate!).


    1. Thanks, Michele! Praying God’s Word over my children has been powerful! Every time I drift and find myself stuck, I’m so thankful to have a place where I can return and find all the words I could ever need!

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  2. Thank you for this sweet call to pray over our children. It’s true that I don’t always know what they need or exactly what to pray. Praying scripture over them is such a comfort to a weary mom heart!


    1. Yes, our weary mom hearts sure do need direction on those days when the well seems a bit dry! I’m glad these words encouraged you, Rachel!

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  3. I love this post. I love children and I love praying. I wholeheartedly agree with you that we must spend time praying for our children. My children are grown. I still pray for them as praying for them should never stop. I love how you outline using the word of God ways we can specifically lift our kids up to the Lord. This one quote you write truly stood out to me, “When God’s strength flows through us, we are able to give without burning out…” How true this statement is! It is one area I am praying concerning one of my sons who gives and serves the Lord 150%.


    1. I’m so glad this post was encouraging for you, Marcie! I really love praying Scripture over my little ones. It’s so easy to be swept away by praying for what I think they need, but God’s Word is a powerful guide for praying what’s important to him! I appreciate your comment and your insight – I’m always grateful for mothers who have a few more years of life-experience to add to the conversation!


  4. What a great post, Stacey! I have often struggled with what to pray for my kids. I will be using these Scriptures as a guide. Thank you for pointing us back to God’s word for the wisdom we need in raising our kids up in Christ.


    1. I’m so glad this was helpful for you, Tiffiney! I get stuck when it’s time to pray for my kids all too often, and going back to God’s Word always helps direct my prayers!


  5. This comes to me at a good time. I’m having some issues with one of my children, and I feel the Lord tugging on my heart 2 things – Love her deeper and fervently pray for her. I pray for my children, but it’s sporadic and sometimes dry because I don’t know what to say. Thank you for the guidance. #LiveLifeWell

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    1. Oh how I understand. There are times when I’m at such a loss – especially in those particularly challenging seasons! I’m so glad this spoke to you!


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